Do you ever feel like marriage is just too tough? The truth is that marriage IS tough. You take two individuals who grew up with different rules, in different environments, with differing beliefs on many things, then put them together, and then for many, ask them to do one of the most stressful things known to man, which is to care for and raise children! The odds are NOT in our favor! But there are things that you can control. These include your actions, your attitude, and your communication within your marriage. Understand that our attitude and our actions are paramount. Choose positivity. Choose to love, and make an effort to communicate better with your spouse.