I’m not sure why this is, but for some, one of the hardest things to do is to show more love to your spouse. It seems as though we’d sooner give up on marriage than either change our attitude, change our actions or improve the way we communicate. It’s likely because each of these things require effort. My advice is to first, be honest with yourself about your current stage of growth. What small action step can you take to show your commitment to one another, grow your attitude about marriage, and help you improve communication with your spouse. Identify where you are, take the necessary step to move to the next stage of your personal growth within your marriage. This is an investment, and it’s one that will pay off.