In our never-ending efforts to improve, get better, and to enhance our personal growth, we tend to start with what we want to do. “I will exercise more. I will eat better. I will be a better husband or father, wife or mother. I’m going to go to church more often.” But there’s a better way. If self-improvement is the goal, we should start with who we want to be, not what we plan to do. What type of person do you want to become?