I am of the opinion that being deliberate in marriage can solve so many of the problems and issues that many married couples face. We’re talking about planning your next steps in personal growth this week, and when it comes to marriage, many of us have a tendency to just go through the motions and let the days come and go. But when you plan your next steps–when you’re deliberate about how you treat your spouse, marriage takes on a whole new dynamic. It’s more of a give and take, it’s active, not passive. Love is a verb in marriage. It’s something you do, not something you uncontrollably fall into or out of. You have to invest time, energy and effort into your relationship. That’s right, your relationship. Own it. Take responsibility. Be the husband or wife you need to be. That’s how you take control of your actions and plan your next steps in marriage.
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